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As a perfume obsessive, it never occurred to me that wearing fragrances to bed could be a “thing” and, in fact, not a sin of any kind.

Long before sleep masks and white noise machines, icons like Marilyn Monroe embraced a more glamorous approach to bedtime. The legendary actress famously confessed to wearing nothing but Chanel No. 5 to bed, transforming her nightly routine into a luxurious ritual.

You might think this sensorial habit frivolous, but maybe bedtime fragrances are a criterion for our ancestors when it comes to “beauty sleep”.

Instead of doom-scrolling for an hour or so, try misting yourself with perfume right before you burrow into your bed sheets and catch your z’s.

You might just find yourself waking up more well-rested the next day and in lifted spirits!

Why is Everyone Wearing Perfume to Bed?


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In recent #PerfumeTok news, netizens (or rather, Gen Zs) are wearing fragrances right before hitting the hay and we’re here to tell you that it’s not as preposterous as you may think.

As of writing, “bedtime fragrances” on TikTok have videos reaching up to 60k views!

Numerous discussions on Fragrantica, an online community for perfume enthusiasts, revolve around the subject, demonstrating the widespread appeal of sleeping with fragrance.

However, this idea and the fragrant pursuit of slumber aren’t new. In the 1940s, fashion icon Elsa Schiaparelli pushed boundaries with her fragrance “Sleeping”. This wasn’t your average bedtime companion — shaped like a candle with a conical snuffer, it promised wearers vivid, fantastical dreams.

Schiaparelli’s ad campaign even hinted at “lighting the way to ecstasy,” showcasing the playful and alluring side of bedtime scents.

Even the surrealist artist Salvador Dali embraced the practice. A notorious advocate for the unconventional, Dali reportedly had his wife place perfume-soaked cotton balls on his eyes before bed, seeking olfactory stimulation to fuel his artistic imagination during sleep.

Related read: 15 “Gen Z Fragrances” That Are Ranked Best and Translates to a Chaotic, Nonconformist You

Improving the Quality of Sleep

Fragrance specialist Eudora Nwasike, certified by The Fragrance Foundation, told Refinery29 that the recipe for a good night’s rest is clean bedding, good air quality, the perfect room temperature, and perfume.

Spritzing your fragrance onto pulse points or on bedclothes can be a form of self-care and elevate our sleep calibre.

Nwasike also explained that the practice of using fragrance to promote well-being has a long history, dating back to the Ancient Greeks and Romans who reportedly used lavender to combat insomnia. This tradition finds support in modern research.

A 2021 study suggests lavender oil effectively relieves insomnia and fatigue, while another study demonstrates how aromatherapy with essential oils like lavender, chamomile, and neroli can lower anxiety and improve sleep for participants.

Related read: Medi-scents Are the Latest Fragrance Trend That Enhances Your Overall Well-being – Here’s What You Need to Know

Influencing Your Dreams

Given that scent is such a multi-faceted sense, fans of bedtime perfumes argue these fragrances can soothe the mind and gently guide us towards slumber.

Studies have proven that certain scents can trigger specific emotional responses; clary sage is often associated with relaxation while citrus can be energising.

Since the olfactory bulb (the part of the brain responsible for smell) has a direct connection to the limbic system which deals with emotions and memory formation, it explains why smells can vividly activate memories or emotions.

While bedtime fragrances might not directly control the content of your dreams, they could influence the emotional tone or trigger specific memories that appear in dreams.

“Functional fragrances” aren’t anything new. According to Suzy Nightingale, fragrance expert and co-host of On the Scent podcast, brands have pumped millions of dollars into funding research for “perfumes with the sole purpose of positively influencing our mood and emotions at bedtime”.

From luxury brands like Vyrao and wellness brand The Nue Co. to even products fashioned by supermodel Kate Moss (COSMOSS), it seems as though everyone’s already on the “wellness fragrance train”.

So, truth be told, using bedtime fragrances shouldn’t be such a shock, right?

Forming Deeper Connections and Levels of Intimacy

Eau de Boujee and Boujee Bougies creative director Nick Gilbert stated on Refinery29 that they believe perfume is “liquid emotion” and can enhance all emotional states.

“The sense of smell is crucial in human attraction and intimacy. Combining olfactory notes with human pheromones can influence sexual attraction and compatibility,” shared Stina Seger, creative director and founder of BIBBI Parfums.

Research supports this idea, with a 2021 study showing that our scent affects how attractive we appear to others. This suggests that wearing bedtime fragrances can be empowering and create an even deeper connection during intimate and romantic encounters.

Other than promoting relaxation, which can make you and your partner more receptive to physical and emotional intimacy, bedtime fragrances can also evoke positive memories associated with each other and lead to deepened intimacy and feelings of nostalgia.

Plus, choosing and applying a bedtime perfume can become a shared ritual that strengthens your relationship’s bond while creating a special time for a relaxed connection.

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What Are People Saying: to Spray or Not?

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Still a sceptic? If you think about it, you’re starting and ending your day in the same way by wearing perfume in the morning and at night which kind of makes for a nice ritual.

On The Standard, perfume expert and creative director of Diem scents Lizzie Ostrom said the quiet, downtime moments before bed are ideal for focusing on scent since we won’t be so distracted by our days and are entering a transition zone per se.

Something as personable as bedtime fragrances should be approached with self-love and the right kind of perspective too.

“If your mindset is that perfume is part of beauty and feeling attractive, or that you’ve got to do it to keep up with some elaborate ritual, then don’t do it. It should never get to a point where it feels oppressive, I would want to resist that,” Ostrom added.

While some say that it’s a waste (especially when you’re spraying from a S$300 perfume bottle), most of the online community is in favour of bedtime fragrances.

Last year, when TikToker @perfumedisco posted a video on bedtime fragrances, many netizens rushed to leave their agreeable comments. One said that their aunt wears perfume to bed because it “has made her have better sleep”.

Another user shared, “I have to wear perfume to bed – it helps me sleep. I’m such a princess when it comes to bedtime”. Meanwhile, someone commented that they have a whole box of night perfume oils.

Now, of course, bedtime fragrances aren’t just for women, and everyone has different reasons for doing it. Why not start by using it as a way to enhance your self-care routine and sleep rituals?

Give yourself a light misting of your chosen fragrance before bed! Just make sure you’re not using a perfume that may cause allergies or skin sensitivities.

Related read: 12 Fragrance Boutiques in Singapore That Are Worth Visiting, Including One With Barber Services!

How Do You Choose a Bedtime Perfume?

Considering the price of most perfumes and how each specific scent calls for a different feeling, your usual signature scent may not cut it.

For a bedtime fragrance, you might want to pick something more soothing. Aside from the obvious (lavender), neroli is a great note option to explore. It’s airy and citrusy with hints of honey and orange; well-known for easing stress and reducing blood pressure.

Jasmine is also another note with a sweet aroma that can help to cleanse the mind, alleviate stress, and increase daytime alertness.

Meanwhile, Ayurvedic medicine has long utilised creamy and soothing sandalwood to treat fatigue, anxiety, and insomnia. This note is also widely popular and a key ingredient in highly raved fragrances like Sol de Janeiro Cheriosa 62, Le Labo Santal 33 Eau de Parfum, and Byredo Mojave Ghost Eau de Parfum.

Other comforting notes to look for include vanilla and ylang-ylang. You can also experiment with “warmer” scents like musk and wood which can be calming and make you feel like you’re being cocooned.

Bonus tip: If you want the scent to stay till the next morning, go for an eau de parfum which usually has a better staying power. For a lighter scent and only when you drift off to sleep, use an eau de toilette.

Related read: 13 Fragrance Trends in 2024: Notes We’ll Be Smelling All Year Round and What to Expect From #PerfumeTok

16 Recommended Bedtime Fragrances

En route to finding your perfect bedtime fragrance like I am? Check out the ones I’ve researched, sniffed, and shortlisted below!

Glossier You Eau de Parfum

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Crafted as a personalised skin scent enhancer, this perfume has the ability to adapt to the wearer’s natural scent and seamlessly melds with your skin to create a scent that is distinctly yours: soft, warm, and familiar.

It has a blend of sparkling top notes including peppercorns and white florals, complemented by a warm and slightly sweet center.

Plus, it’s developed by the creators of Le Labo’s beloved Santal 33, so you can be sure of the quality you’ll be investing in.

Glossier You Eau de Parfum retails for S$120 (50ml) and S$175 (100ml) at Glossier.

Acqua di Parma Colonia Essenza Eau de Cologne

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Experience a modern twist on the timeless Colonia scent with Colonia Essenza.

This citrus and woody fragrance exudes a bold personality, enhancing its classic freshness with the inclusion of floral notes such as grapefruit, mandarin, and petit grain.

These elements harmonise seamlessly with a vibrant woody patchouli base, adding sophistication and elegance to the cologne’s overall character.

Additionally, the blend of citrus, lavender, rosemary, and jasmine causes a calming and soothing effect on the mind.

Acqua di Parma Colonia Essenza Eau de Cologne retails for S$223 (50ml) and S$311 (100ml) at escentials. It’s also available for S$290 (180ml) at Zalora.

Noteworthy n,818

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Inspired by Serendipity Day on August 18, this fragrance celebrates the joy of realising the weekend is just around the corner.

Also known as “Almost Friday” and Noteworthy’s skin scent, this delicate eau de parfum blends the crispiness of juicy apple with jasmine, rosewood, and warm musk. It evokes nostalgia with musky and powdery notes, reminiscent of cherished moments like bedtime stories with loved ones.

The scent also captures the vibrant energy of transitioning into leisure mode — a great mood or phase to be in when you’re winding down from your day!

Noteworthy n,818 (100ml) retails for about S$183.94 (139.44 USD) at Noteworthy. Currently, they don’t ship to Singapore but you can use postal forwarding services like vPost.

Maison Margiela Replica Bubble Bath Eau De Toilette

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Replica’s Bubble Bath is a nostalgic ode to the blissful tranquillity of soaking in a foamy bath where you can immerse yourself in the warm, scented water and feel your body release all tension.

This fragrance wraps you in a gentle cocoon of clean soap bubbles and delicate rose notes, enriched with soothing touches of coconut and white musk.

Experience a profound sense of serene comfort, capturing the essence of a universally cherished moment of personal relaxation.

TikToker @natashaestelle included this in her list of bedtime fragrances, noting that the scent “smells like a boujee sleep hygiene” and “like a luxurious soap they have in 5-star hotels”.

Maison Margiela Replica Bubble Bath Eau De Toilette (100ml) retails for S$220 at Sephora and for S$167 at Zalora.

Aesop Tacit Eau de Parfum

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Tacit is a modern fragrance that exudes vibrancy and freshness; characterised by the generous infusion of basil grand vert and zesty citrus notes.

Its invigorating blend of citrus, basil, and vetiver makes it perfect for bedtime, offering a fresh and earthy aroma that promotes relaxation and tranquillity.

Aesop Tacit Eau de Parfum retails for S$185 (50ml) and S$285 (100ml) at Aesop. It’s also available for S$229 (50ml) at Zalora.

Vilhelm Parfumerie Room Service

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For the ultimate luxurious bedtime routine, go for Parisian luxury brand Vilhelm Parfumerie’s Room Service which also happens to be Victoria Beckham’s favourite perfume. What could be posher?

It draws a glamorous image of icon Greta Garbo at the Carlyle Hotel, adorned in satin and anticipating a bath filled with flower petals.

The fragrance opens with vibrant mandarin nectar and succulent blackberry before evolving into a heart of violet, bamboo, and delicate pink orchid. It’s also anchored by a base of musk, sandalwood, and rich black amber.

Vilhelm Parfumerie Room Service (100ml) retails for about S$362.38 (250€) at Vilhelm Parfumerie. It’s also available for S$314.02 at Beauty The Shop.

PHLUR Missing Person Eau de Parfum

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If “nude” had a scent — this would be it. This subtle yet captivating fragrance recalls the lingering aroma of your lover’s skin, perfect for those who are missing your partner at night.

The fragrance is brought to life with comforting white musk, delicate floral hints of jasmine and radiant orange blossom, and a whisper of gentle transparent woods.

PHLUR Missing Person Eau de Parfum (50ml) retails for S$155 at Selfridges and for S$142.32 at Nordstrom.

Ariana Grande R.E.M. Eau De Parfum

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Ariana Grande’s perfumes were quite popular as bedtime fragrances amongst TikTok users. Other than Cloud EDP, which is also a Gen Z favourite, R.E.M. is also a great choice.

No surprise there — after all, REM sleep is one of four stages the brain moves through while sleeping.

Inspired by the pop star’s fascination with outer space and the cosmos, this scent transports you to the stars, making you feel capable of conquering the galaxy.

This floral and woody fragrance entices with a cosmic fusion of juicy fig and warm salted caramel before elevating your senses into ethereal realms with lavender essence.

Who knows, maybe this bedtime fragrance will have you dreaming of things that are out of this world!

Ariana Grande R.E.M. Eau De Parfum (100ml) retails for S$92 at Fragrance.Sg and for S$114 at PerfumeStore.sg.

Pleasing Closeness Eau de Parfum

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Newly launched just last year by the darling Harry Styles’ brand Pleasing, this perfume boasts a top note of “clean sheets accord”.

This woody musk scent also features Australian pink pepper and cardamom, followed by orris butter, carrot seed, and bamboo heart notes.

You might find this fragrance smells like bed linen that was just washed.

Pleasing Closeness Eau de Parfum (100ml) retails for S$220 at Selfridges.

Serge Lutens Sa Majesté La Rose Eau de Parfum

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Who says your bed and room can’t smell like a bed of roses?

In tribute to the regal rose, Serge Lutens’ Sa Majesté La Rose fragrance harmoniously blends roses sourced from Turkey, Bulgaria, and Morocco to produce its rich floral aroma.

While the essence of rose predominates, hints of clove, white honey, and musk intertwine to provide a delicately sweet undertone, culminating in a captivating olfactory experience.

Plus, this bedtime fragrance is housed in a dome-shaped flacon which adds to that “pre-bedtime ritual for royalty” aesthetic.

Serge Lutens Sa Majesté La Rose Eau de Parfum (75ml) retails for S$337 at Harrods.

BYREDO Gypsy Water Eau de Parfum

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Gypsy Water celebrates the allure of Romani culture, embracing its rich customs, intimate beliefs, and distinct way of life.

This fragrance invokes a vision of a vibrant lifestyle shaped by inherent nomadism, which creates a warm and comforting aroma (contrary to the typical image of “comfort in your own home”).

With woody hints of pine needle and sandalwood, complemented by bold amber and refreshing citrus, it evokes the exhilaration of gypsy nights spent amidst the forest.

BYREDO Gypsy Water Eau de Parfum retails for S$297 (50ml) and S$414 (100ml) at escentials. It’s also available for S$301 (100ml) at Zalora.

Jones Road Shower

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ICYMI, Jones Road was founded by makeup artist Bobbi Brown to offer clean, strategic, and high-grade formulations designed to work effectively on every skin type and tone.

It’s all based on a simple yet powerful philosophy: the world doesn’t need more beauty products; it needs better ones.

The brand’s debut fragrance is said to smell as good as a shower feels and like you’ve just stepped out of the shower. This timeless scent has notes of neroli, orange blossom, and sea spray.

Jones Road Shower (30ml) retails for about S$57.26 (USD 42) at Jones Road. Currently, they don’t ship to Singapore but you can use postal forwarding services like vPost.

Lovely by Sarah Jessica Parker

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And just like that…Sex and the City, anyone? Launched by the design house of Sarah Jessica Parker in 2005, this woody musk fragrance has precious oils, lavender, orchid, amber, apple martini, paper, and white musk.

YouTuber and cell biologist Claire Smith, who’s best known for her beloved videos on all things perfumery, listed this fragrance as one of her top relaxing and calming perfumes to wear to bed.

She shared that the fragrance makes her think of clean linens, restful hotel rooms, and a really good night’s sleep (led by the soft lavender note).

Lovely by Sarah Jessica Parker (100ml) retails for S$40.50 at Amazon.

Memo Paris Sherwood Eau De Parfum

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If you’re into forest-like scents, this fragrance is right up your alley.

Imagine an age-old Sherwood Forest where Robin Hood once roamed. This scintillating woody scent features notes of oak, cedar, carrot oil, and sandalwood.

There’s also a burst of berries and flowers in the form of damascena rose, orange flower absolute, and blackcurrant bud absolute.

YouTuber Cherayeslifestyle showcased Memo Sherwood in a video and said this beautiful and powdery fragrance is very comforting for bedtime.

Memo Paris Sherwood Eau De Parfum (75ml) retails for S$385 at Selfridges and for S$351.41 at Beauty The Shop.

Rituals The Ritual of Jing Hair & Body Mist

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What about indulging in tranquillity? This mist is infused with the serene essence of sacred lotus and the soothing benefits of jujube (a staple in Chinese medicine).

Spritz this onto your hair, body, or sheets to be enveloped in a calming aura with heightened relaxation and a night of peaceful sleep!

Its formula is free from alcohol and safe for all textiles (no stains) and sensitive skin.

Rituals The Ritual of Jing Hair & Body Mist (50ml) retails for S$35 at Rituals.

Serge Lutens Matin Lutens L’eau Eau de Parfum

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Likened to freshly laundered clothes and the scent of steam from ironing linen, L’Eau Serge Lutens beckons us to rediscover a world where true luxury begins with cleanliness.

Definitive and uncompromising, it challenges the notion of perfume as a mere hygiene or social convention. When this fragrance was first launched, it was rather revolutionary (so much that they called it the “anti-perfume”).

It captures the essence of morning essentials. Think water, bath, and a touch of fragrance.

Serge Lutens Matin Lutens L’eau Eau de Parfum (100ml) retails for S$211 at escentials and Tangs.

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